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]]> By: the.holy.priestess http://midwestteensexshow.com/2008/02/21/first-kisses/comment-page-2/#comment-118681 the.holy.priestess Thu, 03 Dec 2009 10:16:31 +0000 http://midwestteensexshow.com/sandbox/2008/02/21/first-kisses/#comment-118681 Er... my first kiss was with my best friend. We were both girls (both totally straight). Funny thing... It was 9th grade. We were texting each other and she asks if I would like to practice kissing. I texted back okay, and we decided to hang out at her place on a Saturday. I went over and we both forgot about the practicing-kissing thing in lieu of video games. After half an hour, we stopped and looked at each other. We both found a stash of mints and while rolling the mint in my mouth, I remembered what I promised her. So, we just awkwardly looked at each other like 'How are we going to do this?' In the end, I just said "Eff it." and leaned into her lips. It was kinda... rough, since it turned into a 'battle for dominance'. But after a while, both of us get really into it. When we stop, we wipe our lips and go back to video games like the geeks we are. Er… my first kiss was with my best friend. We were both girls (both totally straight).
Funny thing… It was 9th grade. We were texting each other and she asks if I would like to practice kissing. I texted back okay, and we decided to hang out at her place on a Saturday. I went over and we both forgot about the practicing-kissing thing in lieu of video games.
After half an hour, we stopped and looked at each other. We both found a stash of mints and while rolling the mint in my mouth, I remembered what I promised her. So, we just awkwardly looked at each other like ‘How are we going to do this?’
In the end, I just said “Eff it.” and leaned into her lips. It was kinda… rough, since it turned into a ‘battle for dominance’. But after a while, both of us get really into it. When we stop, we wipe our lips and go back to video games like the geeks we are.

]]> By: photogirl http://midwestteensexshow.com/2008/02/21/first-kisses/comment-page-2/#comment-114382 photogirl Sun, 02 Nov 2008 06:12:43 +0000 http://midwestteensexshow.com/sandbox/2008/02/21/first-kisses/#comment-114382 Well, my first absolutely sucked. It was with my first and only boyfriend. He walked me to my door, after a month of dating I was wondering if I had done something that made him not want to kiss me, but when that time came, it was this super lame peck on the lips. I was 17. That relationship lasted too long, and I dumped him and found out I was gay. So enters first kiss #2, this girl I had met in 2nd year of college in our human sexuality class. I tried to hint to her that I was bi, at the time anyways. So one day we hung out, movies, coffee, etc, she told me she had feelings for me. Fast forward to a week later, when she finally kissed me, after I had turned my face so that she only kissed my cheek. But what I remember from that kiss was fireworks, it was the best first kiss ever. The goodnight kiss was even better, there was a connection right there, there were more fireworks, this was going to be a great relationship! 3 months later, she admits to just "experimenting" with me, and left me suddenly for her ex boyfriend. A week later enters my current girlfriend (of 7 months). We were both broken up on the same day, and helped each other through the whole process, all the while falling for each other. She is much more my equal anyways! So our first kiss happened nearly 2 months later. We had just seen a movie and it was still early so I decided we'd drive around a bit, but a police officer pulled me over for no reason at all and I was panicking, totally shaking like a leaf. After that I had to chill out, I couldn't drive freaking out like I was, so I pulled into a random parking lot and thus read my Volvo's owner's manuals with her, then proceeded to flirt some more. About 2 hours later I was in the passenger seat with her, kind of cuddling, holding hands (which neither of us noticed we were doing), and she kind of comes from above my head and totally attacks me with this kiss, it was so awkward, and actually startled me. But the kiss was alright, thankfully we "practiced" and have improved a lot on that. I don't really think of my first absolute kiss ever, I think of them with the people I've been with, which is why I guess this was so long. Well, my first absolutely sucked. It was with my first and only boyfriend. He walked me to my door, after a month of dating I was wondering if I had done something that made him not want to kiss me, but when that time came, it was this super lame peck on the lips. I was 17. That relationship lasted too long, and I dumped him and found out I was gay. So enters first kiss #2, this girl I had met in 2nd year of college in our human sexuality class. I tried to hint to her that I was bi, at the time anyways. So one day we hung out, movies, coffee, etc, she told me she had feelings for me. Fast forward to a week later, when she finally kissed me, after I had turned my face so that she only kissed my cheek. But what I remember from that kiss was fireworks, it was the best first kiss ever. The goodnight kiss was even better, there was a connection right there, there were more fireworks, this was going to be a great relationship! 3 months later, she admits to just “experimenting” with me, and left me suddenly for her ex boyfriend. A week later enters my current girlfriend (of 7 months). We were both broken up on the same day, and helped each other through the whole process, all the while falling for each other. She is much more my equal anyways! So our first kiss happened nearly 2 months later. We had just seen a movie and it was still early so I decided we’d drive around a bit, but a police officer pulled me over for no reason at all and I was panicking, totally shaking like a leaf. After that I had to chill out, I couldn’t drive freaking out like I was, so I pulled into a random parking lot and thus read my Volvo’s owner’s manuals with her, then proceeded to flirt some more. About 2 hours later I was in the passenger seat with her, kind of cuddling, holding hands (which neither of us noticed we were doing), and she kind of comes from above my head and totally attacks me with this kiss, it was so awkward, and actually startled me. But the kiss was alright, thankfully we “practiced” and have improved a lot on that. I don’t really think of my first absolute kiss ever, I think of them with the people I’ve been with, which is why I guess this was so long.

]]> By: Ariel http://midwestteensexshow.com/2008/02/21/first-kisses/comment-page-2/#comment-111992 Ariel Sat, 23 Aug 2008 08:30:34 +0000 http://midwestteensexshow.com/sandbox/2008/02/21/first-kisses/#comment-111992 Sadly, I have to say I had bad luck with kisses during my teenage years. I had my first kiss when I was 16, with my first official boyfriend: someone who I still consider a good friend, but who I never had very good chemistry with. We were alone in my house, sitting on the sofa and leaning against each other, chatting. I remember thinking that I knew he was going to kiss me, and sure enough he went in for it. Even though I didn't much want to, I had the "deer-in-the-headlights" reaction and pretty much sat paralyzed as he smooshed his lips against mine. He was a very sloppy kisser, which I found a little gross and unpleasant, but I didn't want to hurt his feelings so, like the wuss I used to be, I didn't say anything. "Ok," I thought, "it's weird but I can tolerate it for a bit." Little did I know that I'd be locked into this kiss for literally ten minutes. It was probably the most agonizing ten minutes of my life, with me occasionally starting to try and pull away (you know, to give him the hint that I might need to come up for air), and him pulling me right back. Who knows how long we'd have gone on like this, but luckily for me, my mom got home then and we both immediately jumped apart and tried to act like we were just hanging out (probably unsuccessfully, but thankfully she never said anything.) I had a handful of other bad kisses with that boyfriend, though none nearly as gruesome as the first, as well as a couple of other bad firsts (though not sex, thank god) before I finally got the nerve up to admit that I wasn't attracted to him. Karmically, my next boyfriend never kissed me at all (though we weren't together long), even though I would have loved it if he did. A combination of both our shyness and issues with his hyper-religious parents who had actually forbid him from seeing me because I was an atheist. I suspect he had a lot of guilt issues, even though he always denied this. After this, I went on a date with a guy who I found really boring. At the end he took me to a park, sat us down on a bench, popped a tic-tac and put his arm around me. The whole thing felt so cheesy that when he leaned in to kiss me, I pulled back and wouldn't let him. It was a very uncomfortable moment, needless to say, and he never called me again. In fact my next experience was very similar. I was on a trip to NH when I was 18, visiting some friends, and one of them suddenly decided, out of nowhere, that I was the love of his life. I liked him as a friend but had no interest in dating him, and frankly was pretty weirded out by how aggressively he was trying to pursue me. Needless to say, one evening he tried to kiss me while we were momentarily left alone in his living room, and I dodged it, which actually made him pretty angry at me. I tried to apologize and let him down nicely, but he just went and locked himself in his room. I did still get to kiss someone on that trip though, and it was actually the (now former) best friend of the first guy. We both really liked each other, and actually ended up moving in together later on and dating for 4 years. The first kiss, however, was pretty 'eh'. We had a lot of chemistry but I was pretty mixed up emotionally from the situation with the other guy (not to mention feeling guilty for doing something I knew would probably ruin the friendship between these two), and he kissed too roughly for my tastes so I was constantly trying to get him to ease off a little and stop crushing my mouth. He did eventually get better, but to be honest I would never describe his kisses as being particularly fantastic. That same night, I lost my virginity to him, which amusingly enough was a much more relaxed and pleasant experience than the kiss was. Years later, after we broke up and I moved back to WI, I ended up going back to NH to visit everyone, and spent an evening hanging out with a friend who I'd always had something of a crush on but hadn't gotten to know real well, and much to my surprise, we had an amazingly good time. The latter half of the evening, we were flirting like crazy and gradually it dawned on me that I had better do something while I still had the chance. So while we were laughing about something, I leaned in against him, and we were literally just going in for the kiss when my ex boyfriend's mom showed up knocking at the door to give me a ride home (I was staying with them). Needless to say, it was an exceedingly frustrating moment which I never had the opportunity to try again. It wasn't until I was 25 that I finally got to have a really good first kiss with someone. On a trip to Dallas (I find it odd and amusing that all of my serious boyfriends have come from vacations in other states) I met a guy who was a few years younger than me, and who I hit it off with immediately. Actually, no, "hitting it off" doesn't do it justice. We pretty much magnetized to each other, physically, intellectually and emotionally. Up until this point I would have told you that that sort of thing (the so-called "movie" romance) simply didn't exist, but now I've amended that assumption to say: hardly ever exists. ^_- Still, it really wasn't what you'd expect, since the entire time I spent with him was sort of like riding a roller coaster of emotions. It turned out he had PTSD from being raped as a child, and there was more than one occasion while I was with him where he would have vivid flashbacks. So I guess, I'll say... our first kiss was sad, but it was really, really nice. We were hanging out in my hotel room, talking... and by the end we were both in tears. The kiss pretty much just happened naturally. It's hard to explain, but because the time I spent with him was so honest and real and intimate... even though it was peppered with really heartbreaking moments... I honestly wouldn't wish for it to be any different. We were a perfect match (and yes, completely compatible where kissing was concerned)... and still are to this day. So there we go. My history of first kisses. About as honest and awkward as you can get. ^_- Sadly, I have to say I had bad luck with kisses during my teenage years.

I had my first kiss when I was 16, with my first official boyfriend: someone who I still consider a good friend, but who I never had very good chemistry with. We were alone in my house, sitting on the sofa and leaning against each other, chatting. I remember thinking that I knew he was going to kiss me, and sure enough he went in for it. Even though I didn’t much want to, I had the “deer-in-the-headlights” reaction and pretty much sat paralyzed as he smooshed his lips against mine. He was a very sloppy kisser, which I found a little gross and unpleasant, but I didn’t want to hurt his feelings so, like the wuss I used to be, I didn’t say anything. “Ok,” I thought, “it’s weird but I can tolerate it for a bit.” Little did I know that I’d be locked into this kiss for literally ten minutes. It was probably the most agonizing ten minutes of my life, with me occasionally starting to try and pull away (you know, to give him the hint that I might need to come up for air), and him pulling me right back. Who knows how long we’d have gone on like this, but luckily for me, my mom got home then and we both immediately jumped apart and tried to act like we were just hanging out (probably unsuccessfully, but thankfully she never said anything.)

I had a handful of other bad kisses with that boyfriend, though none nearly as gruesome as the first, as well as a couple of other bad firsts (though not sex, thank god) before I finally got the nerve up to admit that I wasn’t attracted to him.

Karmically, my next boyfriend never kissed me at all (though we weren’t together long), even though I would have loved it if he did. A combination of both our shyness and issues with his hyper-religious parents who had actually forbid him from seeing me because I was an atheist. I suspect he had a lot of guilt issues, even though he always denied this.

After this, I went on a date with a guy who I found really boring. At the end he took me to a park, sat us down on a bench, popped a tic-tac and put his arm around me. The whole thing felt so cheesy that when he leaned in to kiss me, I pulled back and wouldn’t let him. It was a very uncomfortable moment, needless to say, and he never called me again.

In fact my next experience was very similar. I was on a trip to NH when I was 18, visiting some friends, and one of them suddenly decided, out of nowhere, that I was the love of his life. I liked him as a friend but had no interest in dating him, and frankly was pretty weirded out by how aggressively he was trying to pursue me. Needless to say, one evening he tried to kiss me while we were momentarily left alone in his living room, and I dodged it, which actually made him pretty angry at me. I tried to apologize and let him down nicely, but he just went and locked himself in his room.

I did still get to kiss someone on that trip though, and it was actually the (now former) best friend of the first guy. We both really liked each other, and actually ended up moving in together later on and dating for 4 years. The first kiss, however, was pretty ‘eh’. We had a lot of chemistry but I was pretty mixed up emotionally from the situation with the other guy (not to mention feeling guilty for doing something I knew would probably ruin the friendship between these two), and he kissed too roughly for my tastes so I was constantly trying to get him to ease off a little and stop crushing my mouth. He did eventually get better, but to be honest I would never describe his kisses as being particularly fantastic. That same night, I lost my virginity to him, which amusingly enough was a much more relaxed and pleasant experience than the kiss was.

Years later, after we broke up and I moved back to WI, I ended up going back to NH to visit everyone, and spent an evening hanging out with a friend who I’d always had something of a crush on but hadn’t gotten to know real well, and much to my surprise, we had an amazingly good time. The latter half of the evening, we were flirting like crazy and gradually it dawned on me that I had better do something while I still had the chance. So while we were laughing about something, I leaned in against him, and we were literally just going in for the kiss when my ex boyfriend’s mom showed up knocking at the door to give me a ride home (I was staying with them). Needless to say, it was an exceedingly frustrating moment which I never had the opportunity to try again.

It wasn’t until I was 25 that I finally got to have a really good first kiss with someone. On a trip to Dallas (I find it odd and amusing that all of my serious boyfriends have come from vacations in other states) I met a guy who was a few years younger than me, and who I hit it off with immediately. Actually, no, “hitting it off” doesn’t do it justice. We pretty much magnetized to each other, physically, intellectually and emotionally. Up until this point I would have told you that that sort of thing (the so-called “movie” romance) simply didn’t exist, but now I’ve amended that assumption to say: hardly ever exists. ^_- Still, it really wasn’t what you’d expect, since the entire time I spent with him was sort of like riding a roller coaster of emotions. It turned out he had PTSD from being raped as a child, and there was more than one occasion while I was with him where he would have vivid flashbacks. So I guess, I’ll say… our first kiss was sad, but it was really, really nice. We were hanging out in my hotel room, talking… and by the end we were both in tears. The kiss pretty much just happened naturally. It’s hard to explain, but because the time I spent with him was so honest and real and intimate… even though it was peppered with really heartbreaking moments… I honestly wouldn’t wish for it to be any different. We were a perfect match (and yes, completely compatible where kissing was concerned)… and still are to this day.

So there we go. My history of first kisses. About as honest and awkward as you can get. ^_-

]]> By: Emilyrunsfaster http://midwestteensexshow.com/2008/02/21/first-kisses/comment-page-2/#comment-111699 Emilyrunsfaster Wed, 13 Aug 2008 20:11:47 +0000 http://midwestteensexshow.com/sandbox/2008/02/21/first-kisses/#comment-111699 Oh, i forgot to say in my last post, I'm 18... was 17 when he kissed me/i kissed him, then turned 18 the next week.... so technically our kiss/es was/were illegal. good times. I'm now dating this guy who is a much better kisser (sounds mean, i know, and very supersficial, but it is true). my first kiss with this new guy was strange. i jusdt moved to a new town for college and joined the cross country team (that's the only thing i'm really good at). i just made some new friends and he just so happened to be one of them. he invited me to go bowling with a couple other people after practice. we were bowling and I'd just made a strike (or whatever that is when all the pins are knocked over) and we were all jumping up and down excited and he runs over and kisses me... it was very sudden and surprising, but i liked it much more than you would think! Of course then it was weird because most everyone in the alley had gone quiet (there weren't many people there) and were watching us.. then we stopped and kept bowling as if nothing had happened ;) Oh, i forgot to say in my last post, I’m 18… was 17 when he kissed me/i kissed him, then turned 18 the next week…. so technically our kiss/es was/were illegal.

good times.

I’m now dating this guy who is a much better kisser (sounds mean, i know, and very supersficial, but it is true).

my first kiss with this new guy was strange.

i jusdt moved to a new town for college and joined the cross country team (that’s the only thing i’m really good at). i just made some new friends and he just so happened to be one of them.
he invited me to go bowling with a couple other people after practice.

we were bowling and I’d just made a strike (or whatever that is when all the pins are knocked over) and we were all jumping up and down excited and he runs over and kisses me… it was very sudden and surprising, but i liked it much more than you would think!

Of course then it was weird because most everyone in the alley had gone quiet (there weren’t many people there) and were watching us.. then we stopped and kept bowling as if nothing had happened ;)

]]> By: Emilyrunsfaster http://midwestteensexshow.com/2008/02/21/first-kisses/comment-page-2/#comment-111697 Emilyrunsfaster Wed, 13 Aug 2008 19:39:23 +0000 http://midwestteensexshow.com/sandbox/2008/02/21/first-kisses/#comment-111697 Haha awww most of these are absolutely adorable!!! and then some are strange... many are funny... and a couple are just plain off-topic. Cute though. My first kiss was with this guy that came up to the town i lived in, in the mountains. He lived about an hour away, but he drove up anyway, just to see me. we'd been talking for a few weeks after I had met him at a track meet and given him my number... He was such a great guy in every way, so I was really really lucky to have him as my first kiss. We had decided to go and see a movie in town, but had about an hour to spare, so i took him up to one of the places i run at, with the ending being at the top of a road with a spectacular view of the sky and the town below. We started walking hand-in-hand down the hill on the gravel road and we were just talking when I suddenly slipped! He caught me before i hit the ground, smiled, and said, "I've got you" before giving me a sweet kiss on the lips. We started to walk back up the hill to the car again and shook the moment off... It was a bit awkward, so we changed the subject of what we were talking about and moved on... Then, when we got to the car, I made up my mind and pushed him up against the car to give him a full on kiss- a brave move for such a shy person like myself. We both enjoyed it immensely and in the middle of us kissing, i could feel him smiling. That was my first kiss ;) Haha awww most of these are absolutely adorable!!! and then some are strange… many are funny… and a couple are just plain off-topic. Cute though.

My first kiss was with this guy that came up to the town i lived in, in the mountains. He lived about an hour away, but he drove up anyway, just to see me.

we’d been talking for a few weeks after I had met him at a track meet and given him my number… He was such a great guy in every way, so I was really really lucky to have him as my first kiss.

We had decided to go and see a movie in town, but had about an hour to spare, so i took him up to one of the places i run at, with the ending being at the top of a road with a spectacular view of the sky and the town below. We started walking hand-in-hand down the hill on the gravel road and we were just talking when I suddenly slipped! He caught me before i hit the ground, smiled, and said, “I’ve got you” before giving me a sweet kiss on the lips.

We started to walk back up the hill to the car again and shook the moment off… It was a bit awkward, so we changed the subject of what we were talking about and moved on…

Then, when we got to the car, I made up my mind and pushed him up against the car to give him a full on kiss- a brave move for such a shy person like myself.
We both enjoyed it immensely and in the middle of us kissing, i could feel him smiling.

That was my first kiss ;)

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